Tuesday 24 January 2017

Family Goals model

Apapa Taiwo's Family Goals. 
 Mission Statement : To Profit God And profit Humanity.
Goal: To Build a home for God And make the world to Know Him through every means and methods.
Motto: For Spiritual, Social, mental, Physical and Holistic development
Philosophy : Living an Heaven on earth family life with eternity in view.
Passion: I'm a victim of divorce and i have strong passion to wage war againt the giant(Devil)  fighting against Families. If you want to heal the world, heal the Families. Apapa Taiwo

A) Spiritual Goals
 I)  Family Evangelism & Follow up: We would have a fixed day when the family would go out for evangelism, morning cry, distribution of tracts etc. Sometimes we would have a tag displaying "Have you heard?" So people in office, school, street, could ask us questions and we would tell them that Jesus is Coming soon.
ii)  We would have fixed days for visiting other Families, family friends etc. We would pray and play with them, preach if need be, and encourage them to love God more and draw closer to Him.
iii) Family Prayer: We would have fixed days in which the family would pray together such as family vigil, prayer intercession... Dad & mum prayer, Children prayer.
iv) Family altar, Quiet time and Family night prayer : Some Families just wake up and every one dashes to thier chores, at night before bed time, they also retire to various rooms and sleep off without night prayers. For Apapa Family, we would sing praises and worship with musical instruments, sing hymn, read the Bible, recite memory verses, exhort one another and pray.
V) Family Bible study: We would study Bible chapters, Characters, read Christian books, christian magazine e.g christian women mirror. etc. This would Mostly be done by weekend and holidays.

 B) Family Health
 i) Vital Signs: The family would possess basic medical equipments such as spygmomanometer for checking blood pressure, glucometer for checking blood glucose level, stethoscope for reading heart beat, pulse rate... Weighing scale for checking weight, stadiometer for checking height and both for BMI.
ii) Periodic medical examination
iii) Physical Exercise, calisthenics, jogging, swimming, volleyball, tennis, badmiton, hiking, gyming etc
iv) possession of well equiped first aid box, fire extinguisher, gas alarm and other safety tools.

C) Philanthropic Goals
i) Giving to God first: Tithes and offering, giving to Church projects, vows and pledges etc.
ii) visit the destitutes and give to them: Such as giving to the fatherless, mother less, Orphans, disabled, aged, sick, beggars. We would give them money, food stuff etc. Care for them, pray and play with them preach and encourage them.

 D) Children Training
The Children would be Trained early to know God, the Bible, memory verses, preach and teach the word.
There would be Children diary for each of them in which vital events in thier lives and God's promises would be written. There would be a database for Videos showing how they played with dad and mum, promised to follow God, recited the Bible, sang etc.
There would be special days for counselling and teaching them on vital topics such as Morals, courtsey, Sex Education, Bible topics, self esteem, confidence etc.
 They would be Trained to read academic books, story books, observe bed time stories with them and read with them.
They would be helped to do thier school assignment and thier books would be inspected periodically.
There would be days for quiz and debate among siblings, Awards and rewards would be given.
Cooking Competition among siblings, siblings versus parents, husband versus wife.

E) Financial Goals
Family investment: Agriculrure, Education, rental services, transportation, waste management, estate management etc
Planned finance; income/expenditure, savings, projects etc

 F) Social Goals
i) Family picnics; Amusement park, zoo, swimming pool, botanical garden, water fall.. .
ii) Family dinner and couple's dinner.
iii) Carol Night, movie night, game night, story time, family whatsapp group...
iv) Excursion

vi) Screen time: Strictly using only program booklet. No unplanned watching of T. V
vii) Music day: we would learn Music theory, learn various musical instruments, practice and learn songs, compose Godly songs, compose songs for children, dad, mum...
viii) Mark Special days such as Christmas, Easter, birthdays, Valentine, Children's day, Father's day, Mother's day, new year. All must be celebrated in a Godly way.  Children would not be allowed to go to every party and any Godly one attended, they must be accompanied by a matured christian. These days Children dance erotically in parties. If you have more suggestions, kindly inbox me. Thanks.

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